Kidsvault-Introducing The Younger Sibling to The Elder

Kidsvault suggestion regarding how to introducing a new member in a family can be anew experience for kids. They might feel intimidated by the new kid or might love them to moon and back, either way, introducing a new baby can be a very overwhelming experience. So how do you do that without making your first kid awkward or sad. Let’s have a look at it.

Kidsvault -Introduce a new baby by preparing them beforehand

• Tell your kid about the new member beforehand. Tell them how they have got this amazing life experience of being the elder sibling.
• Tell your kid that the baby will be small and they won’t be able to play with them for some time.
• Get them in the habit of sharing room before baby’s arrival or moving out of the room.
• Arrange for older child’s care when you are in the hospital.

Kidsvault — Introducing new baby to the elder sibling

Allow your elder kid to visit hospital to meet the baby. Give them some importance and cuddle and show them that you still love them as you used to do before.

Different experiences with kids of different age while introducing a new baby

Children younger than 4

Kids till this age are quite attached to their parents and might feel jealous on the arrival of younger sibling. Involve them in taking care of your baby so that they also get attached to them. Shower them with love and make them understand the responsibility of being the elder sibling.

School age kids

Almost the same rules apply to school age kids. But in this case, you can expect them to be a little more detached and have a life with their friends. Ask them to introduce the new baby to their friends.

What if your child expects in an unexpected manner while introducing a new baby?

Your kid might reach in a bad way. They might exhibit bad behaviour to gain attention. That includes screaming, crying, acting younger than their age. If they are doing this to get your attention then you should ignore it so that they resort to good behaviour to get your attention.

Appreciate them if they show good behaviour. This will encourage them to do so in future. You need to shower them with equal love and care so that they don’t feel left out in anyway.

What if my child takes out frustration if I introduce a new baby ?

Well, this could be harmful for the baby. You need to teach them that the new baby is very delicate and can get hurt easily. Tell to show care and concern for their younger sibling. You can also include your elder kid while singing, breast feeding your baby and spend equal time with both of them.

What if I am adopting the younger kid?

Adoption can be an alien concept to your baby. You need to tell them that family is family even if you don’t have blood relations. You can get them some Kids’ books on adoption. Introducing the kids to each other can be an overwhelming experience. They can either become friends instantly or show aversion towards each other. Give them some time and everything will fall into place.